3 tips for your child custody mediation

When getting ready for your child custody mediation, you might feel anxious or uncertain about the outcome, especially if it’s your first time navigating this process. 

It’s normal to experience a range of emotions, including nervousness about discussing sensitive topics related to your children’s care and future arrangements. However, getting prepared is as important, as this will boost your confidence and ability to effectively communicate your concerns and priorities during the mediation session.

Have your evidence ready

If you have any evidence that would point to the other parent as not fulfilling their parental responsibilities adequately or behaving in a manner that could impact the well-being of your children, gather and organize it beforehand. This might include records of missed visitations, communication logs showing lack of cooperation or any documentation relevant to concerns about the other parent’s ability to provide a stable environment for your children. Presenting this evidence calmly and factually can help illustrate your concerns and support your position during the mediation process.

Have sample agreements ready

It is beneficial to demonstrate your readiness to negotiate and collaborate on potential custody arrangements. Prepare draft custody schedules, proposed visitation plans and suggestions for decision-making responsibilities regarding education, healthcare and other important aspects of your children’s lives. This proactive approach shows your willingness to engage constructively in finding solutions that prioritize your children’s well-being. It also provides a starting point for discussions during mediation, fostering a productive atmosphere where both parents can work towards an agreement.

Jot down your concerns and issues

Having a list of your concerns and issues prepared before mediation can help ensure that you address all relevant topics during the session. Include specific details about your children’s routines, educational needs, health considerations and any other factors that are important to their well-being. This list serves as a reference to keep the discussion focused and better ensures that you cover all essential points while advocating for what you believe is best for your children. 

Getting legal guidance can help you identify potential areas of concern or leverage in your custody case that may strengthen your position during mediation.