Preparing for a Contested Divorce in San Diego – Planning for Success

Preparing for a Contested Divorce in San Diego

Pierre Domercq Divorce

Are you preparing for a contested divorce in San Diego?  Do you know things are going to be difficult with your former spouse as you work through complex issues such as child custody and visitation, the division of community property including retirement and/or a business interest as well as matters of child and spousal support?

Does your spouse have a diagnosed personality disorder such as narcissism, bi-polar issues or symptoms of borderline personality disorder?  You are going to need 2 things as you begin preparing for a contested divorce in San Diego: effective and proven strategies and the experienced Certified Family Law Specialists at Burke & Domercq.

Divorce is about decisions.  There will be a lot of them to make along the way.  Emotional decisions are most often poor decisions.  So one of the most important strategies you can put in place involves self-care and processes such as meditation or counseling which can help you to move from a point of emotional challenges or overwhelm to a point of calm, centered focus.

Decisions in a divorce case are usually the result of a successful negotiation or mediation or through trial.  Give and take is an essential element of most divorces and this is an important thing to remember when preparing for a contested divorce in San Diego.  The cost of your divorce and the time required to complete it are directly related to the number of issues upon which there is disagreement and the process required to resolve them.  Our attorneys protect your interests and can work on your behalf to significantly reduce the amount of time you actually need to spend in contact with your former spouse.

If you know in advance what is most important to you, what you might be willing to live without or put less emphasis upon, as well as the things which will are genuinely most important to your former spouse you will be in a much stronger position throughout the process of your divorce.  Our experienced team provides sound advice and counsel while helping you to understand each step in the process and what you can do to increase the likelihood of accomplishing your own goals and objectives while managing the process and decisions of your divorce.

We invite you to review the strong recommendations of former clients and the legal industry, protect your own interests and contact us or call 760-434-3330 to schedule an appointment for a safe, confidential and private consultation with one of our experienced and proven Certified Family Law Specialists.