Dealing with personality disorders and a difficult former spouse usually increases the cost and time frame associated with a divorce. We have often discussed the impact of disagreement and dispute between the parties as the primary source of cost in a Carlsbad divorce. What happens when you former spouse is bullying, argumentative or has a borderline personality disorder or other…
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What is a Mandatory Settlement Conference in a Carlsbad Divorce?
What is a Mandatory Settlement Conference in a Carlsbad divorce? Is this necessary in every case? A mandatory settlement conference is a meeting between the former spouses and their attorneys prior to the beginning of trial proceedings in your divorce. The conference is designed to reduce the burdens on a family law court that is already overburdened by helping to…
How to Keep Your Divorce Less Painful an More Cost Effective
Are you searching for ways to keep your divorce less painful and more cost effective? The experienced Certified Family Law Specialists at Burke & Domercq have served Carlsbad and North County for decades. We understand the consequences of a divorce upon you and your family. Is it possible to reduce the stress and emotional burden of a divorce while accomplishing…
Mediation Can Substantially Reduce the Cost of a Carlsbad Divorce
How can mediation substantially reduce the cost of a Carlsbad divorce? The majority of those who seek a divorce in North County San Diego are looking to keep costs down as much as possible. The fact that more than 80% of local divorcing couples attempt to begin the divorce process without an attorney is evidence of this fact. It is…
How to Reduce the Odds of a Post Divorce Decree Modification
Are you wondering how to reduce the odds of a post divorce decree modification in North County or Carlsbad family law courts? You have learned the process of a divorce is very challenging. There are many issues where you and your former spouse have substantial disagreement. The question isn’t only “How can we get things resolved and complete a divorce?” …
Reducing Emotion Increases the Likelihood of a Successful Divorce
Reducing emotion increases the likelihood of a successful divorce. It also makes the process faster and results in a more cost-effective divorce. “How can I reduce emotion, it’s a divorce for goodness sake?” It may seem counter-intuitive but it is often necessary to negotiate the resolution of a disagreement with your former spouse. If the two of you and your…
Resolving Disputes is the Key to a Cost Effective Divorce
Are you interested in reducing the cost of an impending divorce? Resolving disputes is the key to a cost effective divorce in Carlsbad and throughout California. Most people believe legal battles are the greatest source of expense in a divorce. This is why more than 80% of Californians attempt to begin the divorce process without seeking the advice and representation…
Avoiding a Long and Expensive Custody Battle
What are the best strategies for avoiding a long and expensive custody battle in your divorce? Obviously, if you were in a healthy relationship with your former spouse you would still be married. Child custody and parenting time issues are the source of many challenges in a North County or Carlsbad divorce. However, there are also proven strategies to help…
Planning the Steps Prior to a Divorce Mediation
Are you discussing issues associated with the divorce and hitting an impasse? Have you considered mediation? Mediation is a confidential, private, cost-effective and timely alternative for resolving disagreements or disputes associated with a divorce. Planning the steps prior to a divorce mediation establishes the foundation for an effective and fruitful mediation. The first step is to create a list of…
What are the Basics You Need to Know about a Carlsbad Divorce?
Are you considering a divorce in Carlsbad, Encinitas, Rancho Santa Fe, Oceanside, Vista or Escondido? What are the basics you need to know about a Carlsbad divorce? What actions should you consider and what are some of the things to avoid? Each divorce is unique to the circumstances surrounding the parties. If you are served divorce papers it is important…